tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062079671998002401.post7557263209603416010..comments2023-05-27T12:42:48.248+03:00Comments on Kosher Kola: I really mean when I say I want a dozen kids!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08492649968147186399noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062079671998002401.post-87648926355331709642009-08-10T23:53:10.875+03:002009-08-10T23:53:10.875+03:00Hi Hevel,Thank you for sharing, and I am sorry to ...Hi Hevel,<br>Thank you for sharing, and I am sorry to hear that your adoption experience was difficult. I've been reading through some of your older posts and it sounds like you're trying to provide something better for your family. That's encouraging! Rather than walking away from a process that left you with some scars, you seem to face it with courage and optimism. That is inspirational. :0)Dionne Sincirehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17192899287635535412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062079671998002401.post-41059755250839029582009-08-10T16:20:19.965+03:002009-08-10T16:20:19.965+03:00Hi, Dionne! The biggest obstacle I faced as an ado...Hi, Dionne! <br><br>The biggest obstacle I faced as an adoptee was not being me. I had been a micropreemie, and spent the first 6 months of my life hundreds of miles from home and I already had attachment issues with my birth family. Upon adoption my name, my religion, and practically my birthday were all taken away and from that point on rebuilding my identity was extremely difficult. Attachment never really happened with my adoptive parents and because of that I became a lonely child as well. So I was just a very odd kid. <br><br>I also ended up with an abusive situation that didn't help much either.Hevelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08492649968147186399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5062079671998002401.post-1275038532079170302009-08-09T08:22:07.722+03:002009-08-09T08:22:07.722+03:00hi hevel,forgive me if my question is too personal...hi hevel,<br>forgive me if my question is too personal.., what was the biggest obstacle you faced as an adopted child?Dionne Sincirehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17192899287635535412noreply@blogger.com